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4 Lessons in Femininity …

 

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It has never been so easy for us women to loose our femininity like we do today. This is especially true in a world where women are expected to act and think like men, where life throws so much at us women that the only way of survival is buckling up and tackling things down like a man. We have learned to fight, lead and be partners in a vicious male dominated  world, where being a woman is considered weak, so we put on the big boy pants and get things moving. While Im not against all these, I am one to recognize these come with a price that we women have to pay. We loose our touch of femininity and it s allure. Recently many women are trying to find their femininity and the masculine male too is in search for the feminine woman in the midst of all these women that has lost their femininity to societal struggles.. Below are  lessons that can be  learned in regaining your femininity;

  • Be Charming. Feminine women are charming, if a man offers to carry their bags, they let him, he offers to open the door, they say thank you. Their charm and hospitality is inviting and attracts the very best of the masculine man towards them. This is an exact opposite of what some women are today, they are hostile and think being hospitable and inviting are  forms of weakness. No woman, hospitality especially towards the opposite sex is strength. Be polite and charming even in disagreement, let your charm shines through.
  • Be comfortable in your own skin. A Feminine woman is comfortable in her skin,  she loves herself and as a result she can give love to others. When she looks at the mirror, she sees her beauty, her uniqueness and all that she is blessed with. She is appreciative of what she has, and those small imperfections are minor tweaks that she can always fix with her charm and elegance. When she laughs she exudes confidence, she walks and moves her hips like a lady because she is confident in her skin and owns the ground she walks on.
  • Look the part. The feminine woman looks  and dresses the part. She is always  seen in beautiful clothing that accentuates her figure in a positive way leaving her looking every inch of the true goddess that she is. She smells lovely, nails and hair did, looks well put together. The way she speaks, the energy she radiates and how she carries herself makes her almost impossible to resist. Want to look and feel like a feminine woman, think beautiful hair, soft skin,feminine clothing and most importantly a positive  feminine energy to hold everything together.
  • Be Gentle. The feminine woman is gentle, slow to anger and her friends and masculine men feel safe around her.  This is sadly the opposite of what many women are today. Some women are rude, nagging ,they yell at the top of their voices ,they brag, they curse and much more.. While many women desire, tough, dark and masculine men, believing it makes them appear tough. Well..news flash.. masculine men don’t want tough, they desire the feminine´s woman gentle demeanor and strength, thats the woman they feel safe with.

Have more lessons to share with our readers? please don’t hesitate to drop them in the comment section. Enjoy the new week guys and make it count.. Catch ya latter

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11 Comments

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    ellabella
    August 23, 2015 at 2:06 pm

    “Their charm and hospitality is inviting and attracts the very best of the masculine man towards them”…………”she is confident in her skin and owns the ground she walks on”

    Just a couple of the phrases I love in this post. Harrie cheers for reminding us women all that we can and should be. Often every day life tries to bring out the crassness in us…but I remind myself after reading this why he picked me out in the first place.

    Thanks Harrie, really………..xoxoxoxoxo

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      Harrie
      August 24, 2015 at 8:14 am

      Awwww. Thank you Ellabella..
      xoxoxo

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    ellabella
    August 23, 2015 at 2:07 pm

    oh, I forgot to say lovely pics too!!!

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    G
    August 23, 2015 at 3:03 pm

    Lovely ensemble and great pointers

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      Harrie
      August 24, 2015 at 8:13 am

      Thank you .
      xoxoxo

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    islandchic77
    August 24, 2015 at 6:39 pm

    amazing post my doll
    http://islandchic77.com/

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      Harrie
      August 25, 2015 at 7:33 am

      Thank you hun..
      xoxoxo

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    chic therapy
    August 27, 2015 at 10:34 am

    Lovely pictures. You look amazing as always.

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      Harrie
      August 27, 2015 at 9:02 pm

      Thank you hun..
      xoxoxo

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    Cassandra Ikegbune
    September 16, 2015 at 1:31 am

    Oh I love your blog!!

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      Harrie
      September 16, 2015 at 4:11 pm

      Thank you dear..
      xoxoxox

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