The modern woman is expected to be a tough cookie especially now than ever no matter what the circumstances are. From a celebrity marriage drama that played out recently on social media, my views on the tough modern woman was challenged and it left me wondering, has social media taken over every area of our lives already? are the solutions to our most personal issues found on social media? if your spouse or partner came venting their frustrations of the relationship on social media, do you use the same social media to respond ? What really makes a man or woman tough in todays society? hiding behind the comfort or a smart phone and screaming your issues to the world or rather talking to each other like we did before social Media? Is keeping silent and not responding to every thing thrown at you on social media a sign or weakness or maybe strength? In a world were everyone seem to have an opinion about another persons life especially the part that is thrown out on social media, I ll choose to believe that privacy and dealing with whatever issues you are facing in private and with the people that truly matter is strength and it is commendable. It doesn’t make you less human as some people choose to believe, it doesn’t make you fake either as some argue, it just makes you one of those people that truly understand that your issues are best dealt with in private and with the people that truly matter and most importantly God. Solutions to our problems are never found in chaos, and how some people even try to applaud the use of social media as a means of pouring our hearts out in the deepest of our sorrows as a sign of being real, human and strong baffles me. I can’t speak for everyone though, and your views on this to shed more light on a trend that is truly on the rise will be very appreciated.
While I digress, Im pairing an unexpected combo for todays outfit post. Yes, a maxi and flared denim, unexpected I know for someone who likes to play it safe like I do, expect the unexpected out here lol, I’m unleashing my inner heroine , Love the look? well let me hear your thoughts . Have a blessed week guys and catch ya laters..
Love x light