Growing up, I always heard the saying “Women are their own worst enemies” it never really made sense until I grew passed my teenage years into womanhood when everything changed. I grew loving and supporting my fellow woman, believing I was my sister´s keeper and she had my back too. Whenever my fellow woman was succeeding in something I cheered them on, and the others that struggled,I did my best to be a source of encouragement. Life for me made sense until when things changed completely.
Some women around me and even those who were complete strangers became really critical and vicious,and sometimes I found myself doing the same knowingly or unknowingly. We seemed to be fighting a battle that can not be seen with the eyes,sadly this battle is against the fellow woman.When ever I walk into a place of authority needing a service and a woman is to render that service , instantly things don’t usually go in my favor, or I will have to work harder than normal to prove myself and sadly I was proven right almost every time. Almost every woman I know complains about the same things, a back stabbing friend, a vicious friend who won’t support your dreams or struggles and can’t even celebrate your successes,the gossiper,the envious one,the women who are quick to judge others etc. Leave it to a woman to outline all the flaws of a fellow woman forgetting we all are fighting our own battles.. Then it dawns on me, Most women don’t support their fellow women for reasons best known to us.
While trying not to turn this into a boring read, I say to you women reading this, it doesn’t matter where you are in life, from the first Lady to the janitors ,entertainers to CEO s, lets learn to support our own. Being a woman is hard enough in a Male dominated world, but being pulled down by your fellow woman is worst. Love your sister, support them,give a hug,be your sister s keeper and the let love for your fellow woman grow bigger than envy,pride,jealousy and hate. Enjoy the rest of your weekend guys and check back soon.
Quote of the Day.
I am not a product of my circumstances. I am a product of my decisions- Stephen Covey-
Love x Light